We are all created with the need for both security and significance in our lives. When we look for other people or things to primarily provide that, then we eventually crash. We must look to our relationship with the Father to give us the unconditional love and purpose for our lives. The end goal is holiness not happiness and that is where we will find rest for our souls. This post by Austin Carr is excellent:
“Early one morning after a win last season, I sat in my chair during my quiet time with God feeling empty and despondent. It was odd to be feeling this way because the team was rolling, I was getting good on-the-field experience, and the likelihood of a playoff run was climbing. After some prayer, it became clear that I was unhappy with my individual performance.
My role in the previous game had been mostly the blocking that goes unnoticed and scores you few high-fives from teammates on the sidelines. If only I had scored last night—or at least made a big catch—then I’d be happy, I thought to myself.”